Tuesday, August 11, 2020

Mid-August musings...

Comin' at ya this week from the magical land we like to call...Extended Phase II! (And can I just add, the fact that everyone automatically knows what that means kind of sums up the state of the planet right now, yeah? Siiiighhh…) While the governor's announcement certainly came as no surprise--and once again felt like exactly the right call--it goes to show that some things haven't changed much lately. However, we do fortunately have a few updates and anecdotes to break up the late-Summer doldrums...

Speaking of which, we've arrived at that inevitable point in the season where a number of predictable things tend to occur….such as the fact that I, for one, am thoroughly OVER the double-H'd-sword of heat and humidity, and ready for the weather to take a turn. Alas, I also know that this won't happen for at least another month, so we must carry on...with the sweating....and whatnot. Also, Riley seems to have secured his membership in the elite Boredom Club (founding member: yours truly) in recent days. How do I know this? He came to me and asked, "Do you have any errands you need run? Because I NEED to get out of the house!" That's right, the nearly-17-year-old offered to complete my To Do List for me, just for the sake of driving somewhere. But hey, fighting tedium by making himself useful? I can absolutely get behind that!
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However, both he and Derek reached milestones of a sort this week, as they marked their last days (or nights, as it were) of work. For Derek, who spent the past several months toiling away on a 10 p.m. to 2 a.m. shift--or 3, or 4, depending on how late they kept him--this means a bit of a break to get his body clock and daily routine back to a reasonable facsimile of normal, before he ships off to SC for the Fall semester (more on that in a moment). And with his Senior year approaching, Riley decided to end his tenure at the grocery store to focus on his studies, at least for the beginning of the academic term, until he adjusts to his new 5-AP course load, and submits all his college applications. (Stay tuned: we'll revisit that shortly as well.)

So, now that we’ve arrived at the topic of learning and whatnot, I had Derek do one final check of his classes before I settled his tuition bill, just to see if anything had changed since the last time we took a peek. And whaddya know…his entire schedule had formally been converted to “online”. While we’re not entirely certain how this is going to play out, I do hope they have additional in-person support for some of the more challenging material…like the second level of Organic Chemistry that he’s required to take (after barely skating by Orgo I, using that handy Pass/Fail lifeline to smooth over his less-than-desirable letter grade.)

While it would theoretically be possible for him to remain at home during all this, he’s understandably itching to go back, see his friends, hang out on campus, and resume whatever kind of collegiate life is available to him…for as long as it lasts. Besides, we’re locked into a lease on his off-campus apartment anyway, and have to pay rent, so he might as well spend some time there, right? Hopefully the habits that have been instilled in him during his months in Casa WestEnders (masks! hand washing! sanitizer! 6 feet!) will prove deeply ingrained enough to survive a return to the potential chaos of a large university (fingers definitely crossed).

Riley will also be carrying on with the working-from-his-bedroom phenomenon for the foreseeable future. Tomorrow he’ll be able to log on to his student account and see what his daily agenda will look like for the year. Then next Wednesday we have an assigned time to show up at a drive-through pick up/drop off situation, where he’ll exchange the Chromebook he used last year for a shiny new flip/touch/tablet…thingie….and a mobile hotspot. Y’all…they are SERIOUS about trying to make this successful. (I mean, my favorite part was that even preschoolers will be issued IPADS. What. The. What? Brave new world, I guess…) 

Meanwhile he’s plugging away at his Common/Coalition App essays, as well as each institution’s unique requirements, and occasionally wandering by to consult with me when he can’t quite decide how he wants to address one of the writing prompts. (Naturally, I super-love these impromptu editorial meetings. I look forward to the point when he’s ready to have me do a read-through for more substantive improvements. It just…warms my little nerdy heart…)

Then on a purely recreational note, I was able to get together with some bootcamp buddies for a socially distanced paddleboarding trip, thanks to one of our intrepid organizers who took it upon herself to arrange the outing. Unlike last year, when we traveled to a nearby lake, this time we tried a river setting. I actually found that I liked it better, with the surface being smooth and calm due to the absence of motorboats whizzing by at frequent intervals! And having attempted this activity once before, I felt steadier and more comfortable on the board this time, making for an entirely pleasant float down the lazy waterway.

We paddled, we sat down and chatted, we breathed in the fresh air and admired the lovely landscape—it was an altogether delightful foray into the mystical realm of…Saxapahaw. (I couldn’t resist throwing that in there; it’s such a blast to say!) Afterwards—having earned ourselves a whole bunch of calories with our wet workout--we congregated at a local eatery called The Eddy, for a delectable brunch. Awesome exercise AND a yummy meal? Yep, that’s a Win/Win! 

Finally, you might recall that Derek and I launched an ambitious Disney/Pixar film campaign in 2019, during which we viewed 19 movies in total, either first time experiences or favorites revisited. Well, given how much we enjoyed that…and also the amount of free time we’ve had on our hands…we decided on a different “project” in 2020. This one involved identifying just a handful of what Derek considers the “top tier” flicks from OTHER studios (primarily Dreamworks), and also plowing through some of the recent offerings in the Marvel Universe one more time.

Thus we spent some entertaining Saturday nights with such gems as Shrek, How to Train Your Dragon, Kung Fu Panda (the originals only, no sequels!), Captain America: Civil War, Black Panther, Spiderman: Far from Home, and Avengers: Infinity War and Endgame. And with that very appropriate final, epic selection…we’re done. Which makes me a little sad, honestly, but also feels like the right timing, with the college kid set to head south next weekend and all.

So with one more official week of Summer 2020, let’s make the most of it, shall we? We’re gonna get out there, thumb our noses at the weather forecast…yeah, and then probably retreat to the air conditioning for some cool drinks and (albeit Corona-depleted) baseball on TV. Eh, sounds like a fine antidote for August antipathy…who’s with me?

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