Wednesday, April 29, 2020

On the plus side...

Well, friends, it looks like April is (checks calendar, not trusting self to accurately nail down slippery concepts like "dates" anymore) yep, almost over...which means we've just about survived another month of this...coronavirus-takeover-situation. So first let me shout from the rooftops: YAY, US! For following the rules required to keep ourselves and others safe, for doing all the difficult, not-fun things experts say will help us eventually thwart the dastardly wee bug, and mostly for hanging in there and getting through each day as best we can: one ginormous global socially-distant totally safe virtual high five coming out to each and every one of you. 

Of course, given those factors I just mentioned, it’s no surprise that…not much has changed over the past several weeks...and frankly, life isn't all that exciting right now. Therefore (partially in order to bolster my own sanity, tbh) I’ve decided that today’s topic for reflection shall revolve around “tiny bright spots”--things that recently have provided just a smidgen of joy to counteract the onslaught of constant dire news and chilling statistics which have unfortunately become such a part of our daily existence.

First of all, some light and fluffy entertainment (because who doesn’t need a dose of THAT right now, yeah?). Remember that book of brain teaser puzzles I bought several weeks ago? The boys happened upon me peacefully sitting in my office one day, concentrating on filling in some of the answers…and instantly wanted a piece of the action. (As competitive young men will do. It's a game? They're IN! Wait, is there a prize?) So, picking through to identify some of the more...generationally relevant ones...I challenged them with quizlets like these:
1.   AHAB: initials of 2 famous people; one killed the other
2.   Guess the item based on 3 clues: In 2008 many baseball fans were disgusted when a photo surfaced depicting Yankees 3B Alex Rodriguez using one of these as a napkin. In the film “National Treasure”, Nicolas Cage uses one of these to determine the time of day that a shadow cast from Independence Hall would point to a secret location. As of 1869, this is the highest-valued unit of currency in U.S. circulation.
Ah, nerd family bonding time…can’t beat it!

No photo description available.And speaking of wholesome amusement, one diversion that luckily has been available to lift one’s spirits is the fabulous “get the heck outside” option. With the arrival of glorious Spring weather, running, walking, and biking have provided a welcome escape—literally—from the indoor doldrums. Even better, the nearby Fleet Feet came up with a brilliant idea for some special Runner’s Boxes, filled with goodies centered around a theme, and offered with contactless curbside pickup. 

Needless to say, the java-related one practically screamed my name. And as an unexpected but thoroughly welcome surprise, when I went to the store to retrieve my treasures, I was met by none other than the woman in charge of the Wednesday night pub runs I regularly attend (pre-and-post-pandemic, naturally). So, awesome shirt/locally roasted coffee/workout fuel/mug…plus the opportunity to chat with someone I obviously hadn’t seen in a while (appropriately separated)…that’s definitely a Win/Win!

Next, related to that whole notion of “leaving the house”, it seems like the Male Trio—who mostly have been coping admirably well—lately might be developing a bit of an…itch to wander, so to speak. For example, Riley earnestly approached me the other day and announced that he would be making a trip to the grocery store, “to give you a break, because you do it all the time”. After approximately 1.5 seconds he wryly added, “And besides, I need to get out for a bit.” Oh trust me, I understand, child! 

Then there was the every-3-weeks-or-so expedition to Costco, a chore which routinely falls to Husband; however, this time he invited/coerced Derek to join him for the company…and probably moral support, as one can never really predict what that place is going to be like on a so-called normal day, much less during an extended episode of Hoarders: the toilet paper and hand soap edition. Upon their return they reported that all of the mandated public safety measures were being properly implemented, and their experience was…fine. (Which in the grand scheme of things can absolutely be classified as one of those “small victories”!)
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This leads me to something completely silly  that nevertheless made me happy last week. Due to a combination of factors—such as having to buy extra food with both kids here and all 4 of us at home more than usual, thereby racking up the Harris Teeter Fuel Rewards points…driving less because of so many things being closed…and almost unbelievably low gas prices…I was able to completely fill my tank...for under $20. That just pleased me waaaay more than it should have, but like I said, ya gotta focus on the positive wherever you can find it at the moment, amiright?

Aaannnd, what lockdown post would be complete without an installment of the esteemed reality show we like to call The Continuing Adventures the Goofball Brothers. While they do still have assignments to keep on top of, they have most assuredly found themselves with an unprecedented (GAH! Sorry!) amount of free time not typically afforded them during the academic year. As such, they’ve been taking advantage of the bonus togetherness in a variety of ways. Such as storming into my workspace and staging a mock argument at top volume, in order to get me to stop what I’m doing and yell at them to knock it off. Siiighhhhh…. (I’m just kidding—they only do it when they’re sure I’m not, you know, on a video call with colleagues or something. So it’s kind of a hilarious break from whatever mundane task I happen to be doing at the time…but I’m not telling them that, okay? Heaven only knows what they’d do with actual encouragement to be all dramatic and whatnot. Let’s just not go there…)

Image may contain: 2 people, including John Enders, people sittingAnd finally, when they’re not busy harassing me, they’ve re-instituted a heartwarming practice: collaborating on the PlayStation, mostly with Lego Marvel games. Well…on second thought, that makes it sound far more...harmonious...than it often turns out to be. In practice, although they’re supposed to be cooperating as a team to defeat whatever villain is currently menacing their characters, what actually appears on the screen seems to involve a great deal of...running amok, chasing each other, sabotaging one another’s efforts…and very little triumphing over evil and whatnot. Oh, and copious amounts of trash-talking, barking advice (which is overwhelmingly ignored), and exasperation when whatever flimsy, incomprehensible plan they invented inevitably fails to attain their goals. Yeah…it’s a real HOOT, y’all.

Anyway, it's been very satisfying to refocus my scattered pandemic-ridden mental space and share a few smile-inducing moments that have cheered Team WestEnders of late...so thanks for tagging along. And who knows--perhaps May will bring better tidings in the planet-wide fight to crush COVID. Let's all keep our fingers crossed...and in the meantime, stay safe and well, amigos!

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